Loving someone after a Heartbreak

Love is often fantasized as happily ever after in movies and books. A man falls in love with a woman, but they have external problems that come in their way of relationship. The couple then fights the complications to come together forever. But in reality, relationships work differently. In the real world, the difficulties arise within the relationship.  A human being is a combination of positive attributes and flaws. When two people fall in love, both need to accept each other with their weaknesses. But one often tends to fall in love with the right qualities and backs out when the imperfections appear.

The concept of Forever is also overrated. People fall in love and fall out of it as well. It is natural to end a relationship if both are not happy in it. Sometimes, a relationship even ends in heartbreak, but that does not mean it is an end to the existence of love in your life. It is possible to love again. Heartbreak is challenging to overcome. But one must accept it as a part of their life and move ahead, learning from the past.

If you are going through a heartbreak, take your time, and rediscover yourself meanwhile. Cry your sorrows out, but remember to smile after. For what you may consider a dead-end, it may be an obstacle in your journey of love. You may stumble upon someone special again. And the journey of being in a relationship will also begin anew. It is then essential that you forget the past and accept the newfound love with open arms. These are some simple tips to love someone after a heartbreak.

Do not generalize

If one man has hurt you, it doesn't mean all men are bad. Don't blame the entire kind for one person's mistake. Each person is different, and their views on life are different. If one's opinion did not match your way of thinking, don't lose hope. It cannot mean that it is the end of the world. It just means that the person wasn't right for you. The right person could be waiting for you out there for which you need to keep looking. Always keep your heart open to new possibilities.

Give it a second chance

Meeting new people after heartbreak is perfectly alright. If you happen to meet someone who you believe can heal you, then give love a second chance. Clear your mind of the old memories, and do not let it influence your present. In any case, do not compare him or her to your past. Give it a fresh start with a clear mind and no prejudices.

Communicate

When you have given love a second chance, be involved in the relationship wholeheartedly. Communicate with your partner as much as you can. Your past broken relationship must have left scars that you fear. Share those anxieties with your companion. Communicating about your concerns lessens your worries and helps strengthen your bond of love.

Accept uncertainty

Relationships do not come with a user manual that guarantees success. Every time there will be a fifty-fifty chance of success and failure. While you are taking a second chance, accept the risks and challenges that could come in your way of the new connection.  Every relationship needs a different amount of time and effort to be stable. Keep faith in life, and move ahead in love.

You are worth it

Give a constant reminder to yourself that you deserve love. Nothing can hurt you and break you. You will face every hurdle with all your strength and keep yourself happy. Love and respect yourself the way you wish others to treat you. And believe in yourself.

Life is too short to complain about the regrets we have had. It is also very long to remain in loneliness. Instead, take second chances and jump the leap of faith. As humans, we need companionship for which we need to build stronger Human connections. Keep trying.